Sunday, 2 December 2018

This Lady Is Getting Married But In Love With Another

Greetings To You All

Sorry it’s coming late but I’ll have to get your advice on this….. If need be, everyone’s contribution too. A friend of mine confided in me concerning something that has been bothering her. 
 
She was friends with a guy who reside and does his business in
Lagos and they developed strong feelings for each other in the sense that the guy loves her so much that he’s planning on settling down with her .
They made it compulsory to be bed un-defiled till marriage for 3 years now (they agreed to be celibate) though distance also helped them in other to achieve the feet…… Mind you,this guy’s the new guy. (For the purpose of better understanding,lets call the guy John) Before she met this guy, she was still love and in serious relationship with someone else whom  she lost contact with after she went for a skill acquisition training in same state but another city…..(lets call this former guy:James)
She’s into fashion design and Catering. 
 

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However, her family did approve of it all because of age long believe that they related somehow. But two of them are finding it hard to accept. Though I’ve done my own part as a friend would advice to this lady but she needs advice on how to convince the guy to accept it in good faith that they were not meant to be together.
From our investigations,James family are distant relatives to my friend’s mother. They said that James family used to stay in the same compound with my friend’s maternal family members, they are from the same village and because of that,they insist that the families are too related and therefore,they cannot approve of their marriage.
My friend is finding it very difficult to let go of James. She also finds herself going back to the guy once in a while. If it’s prayers, I bet she’s trying her best.
Now,she is preparing to marry her fiance of three years but truly her heart is with her lover and she is confused and afraid that she is making a huge mistake. How can you advice her?
I need the house too to contribute. Thank you ma.
From A Whatsapp member.

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